Plato’s Republic, Book 1, Reflecting on Old Age, Morality, and Justice
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Plato’s Republic, Book 1, On Aging and Morality, a Better Word for Justice

Reading Robin Waterfield’s translation was like breathing fresh alpine air. When I thought that Plato’s Republic was about justice, I reasoned that this was because Socrates sought to train Athenians to be better citizens in a direct democracy, a skill that would not be needed in the later totalitarian Roman Empire. But Robin Waterfield’s translation of the Republic makes more sense and is more in line with Stoic and Christian moral values. I demur from the conventional scholarly opinion that who the translator is does not matter. […]

Paul Tournier, Christian Psychologist on Marriage and Widows in Old Age and Retirement
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Paul Tournier, Christian Psychologist on Marriage and Widows in Old Age and Retirement

What is the ideal, according to Paul Tournier? “Growing old together, husband and wife can come to know a love which is, in a way, a prefiguration of heaven, for it is less tumultuous than the love of youth, being less directed towards selfish pleasure-seeking, and because a slow advance in mutual comprehension permits more authentic communication.” […]

Joys of Successful Aging, by Evangelical George Sweeting, Moody Bible Institute
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Joys of Successful Aging, by Evangelical George Sweeting, Moody Bible Institute

George Sweeting writes: “Age adds maturity and richness to life. Age smooths the rough edges of life and adds gentleness and compassion. They say: ‘The older the violin, the sweeter the music.’ Some speak of seniors as ancient, faded, frail, shriveled, senile, withered, wrinkled, and worthless!” I prefer to say seniors are “experienced, dependable, mature, patient, seasoned, steady, wise, tested, survivor, and veteran!” […]

Epictetus, Eminent Roman Stoic Philosopher, on Living Well, Dying Well, and Opposing Suicide
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Epictetus, Eminent Roman Stoic Philosopher, on Living Well, Dying Well, and Opposing Suicide

Is it wise to complain? Epictetus observes: “If someone dies young, he blames the gods because he is being taken before his time. If someone lingers on into extreme old age, he too blames the gods.” “Despite this, at the approach of death, he wants to stay alive; he sends for the doctors and begs him to do all he can.” “It is quite remarkable to see how people want neither to live nor to die.”
“Is health good and illness bad? No, man. What, then? Health managed well is good, but when badly managed, it is bad.”
Epictetus points out: “If you look at yourself in isolation, it is natural for you to live to an old age, to be rich, to be healthy. But if you look at yourself as a human being and as part of some whole, for the sake of that whole, it may be appropriate for you to be ill, or risk your life at sea, or be poor, or die young. Why get angry then?” “What is a human being? A part of a city made up of gods and human beings,” “a small copy of the universal city.” […]

Doris Day, Que Sera Sera, Que Sepa Sepa
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Doris Day, Everyone’s Girl Next Door: Que Será, Será? Que Sepa, Sepa?

Doris Kappelhoff was born in 1922, she was both a leading movie star and singer from the 1940’s through the early 1960’s, when many movies were musicals. In her youth she was hoping to be a dancer, but when she broke her leg when the car she was riding in collided with a freight train, she instead became a singer. She started singing in the hospital out of boredom, and since her voice was so clear her mother enrolled her in voice lessons.
In the late thirties Doris began her career as a big band singer, recording more than six hundred songs. Early in her career she adopted the stage name of Doris Day, inspired by the song Day After Day, as her original surname was too long to fit on marquees. She made her film debut in 1948, starring in dozens of movies with many leading men of Hollywood, many of them romantic comedies, including Rock Hudson, Jimmy Stewart, Clark Gable, Ronald Reagan, Cary Grant, David Niven, and many others.
Her public persona was the virtuous girl next door, so she declined the leading role in the Graduate. In that movie, the role of the randy mother-in-law went to Ann Bancroft, who seduced her future son-in-law, Dustin Hoffman. What was not explored in the movie was what the family holiday dinners were like after he married her daughter. Doris Day was not willing to transition to the Free Love climate of the Sixties, which quickly ended her movie and recording careers. […]

Seneca on Aging Death and Suicide
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Roman Stoic Philosopher Seneca on Aging, Death, and Suicide

Seneca reminds us: “There is indeed a limit fixed to us,” “but none of us knows how near he is to this limit. Therefore, let us so order our minds as if we had come to the very end. Let us postpone nothing. Let us balance life’s account every day.” “Let us begin at once to live and count each separate day as a separate life.” What is important is “not how long you live, but how nobly you live. And often living nobly means that you cannot live long.” […]

Roman Stoic Philosopher Seneca on Aging, Retirement, and Death
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Roman Stoic Philosopher Seneca on Old Age and Retirement

Seneca faces old age and death as only a Stoic could. “Old age is a time of life that is weary rather than crushed.” Nevertheless, I am thankful, “for age has not damaged my mind, though I feel its effects on my constitution. Only my vices” “have reached senility; my mind is strong,” “it is alert,” “it declares that old age is when it blooms.” “My mind bids me to consider how much this peace of mind and moderation of character I owe to wisdom and how much to my time of life; it bids me to distinguish carefully what I cannot do and what I do not want to do.” “There is only one chain that binds us to life, and that is the love of life.” […]

Classical Christian Psychologist Paul Tournier on Old Age, Death, and Faith
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Classical Christian Psychologist Paul Tournier on Old Age, Death, and Faith

Tournier reminds us that we may experience many successes, but as we grow older, “success retreats, and escapes us, it is limited, unfulfilled.” “When one comes to the end, a man’s life is nothing much.” “Professional life is over, and it finishes unfinished. This is a prefiguration of death, in which the whole of life will finish it, too, being unfinished. That is the dramatic contradiction of death.” Quoting Robert Mehl: “An end, but not a fulfilment, that is the face of death.” […]

Paul Tournier on Aging and Retirement
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Classical Christian Psychologist Paul Tournier on Old Age and Retirement

Paul Tournier notes: “Freud defined psychological health under the double heading of aptitude for love and for work.” But Paul Tournier cautions that “the superficial relationships of working life and of sexual attraction must lead to a deeper personal commitment. And I believe that no commitment can be truly personal unless it takes on a transcendent dimension and become love, in the biblical meaning of the word.”
Paul Tournier is grateful: “As an intellectual, I am specially privileged. It is true that the better educated people are, the more chance they have to enjoy their retirement. First, intellectual work” is not physically taxing. “Second, the capacity for intellectual work is retained longer than physical ability. It can even increase in old age as long as disease does not affect the mental faculties. But most of all, the more one exercises one’s mind, the more pleasure it gives to exercise it. The more one learns, the more one wants to learn, and the easier study becomes.” […]