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Joys of Successful Aging, by Evangelical George Sweeting, Moody Bible Institute
Aging

Joys of Successful Aging, by Evangelical George Sweeting, Moody Bible Institute

12/13/2025 Bruce Strom 1

George Sweeting writes: “Age adds maturity and richness to life. Age smooths the rough edges of life and adds gentleness and compassion. They say: ‘The older the violin, the sweeter the music.’ Some speak of seniors as ancient, faded, frail, shriveled, senile, withered, wrinkled, and worthless!” I prefer to say seniors are “experienced, dependable, mature, patient, seasoned, steady, wise, tested, survivor, and veteran!” […]

Doris Day, Que Sera Sera, Que Sepa Sepa
Aging

Doris Day, Everyone’s Girl Next Door: Que Será, Será? Que Sepa, Sepa?

10/11/2025 Bruce Strom 0

Doris Kappelhoff was born in 1922, she was both a leading movie star and singer from the 1940’s through the early 1960’s, when many movies were musicals. In her youth she was hoping to be a dancer, but when she broke her leg when the car she was riding in collided with a freight train, she instead became a singer. She started singing in the hospital out of boredom, and since her voice was so clear her mother enrolled her in voice lessons.
In the late thirties Doris began her career as a big band singer, recording more than six hundred songs. Early in her career she adopted the stage name of Doris Day, inspired by the song Day After Day, as her original surname was too long to fit on marquees. She made her film debut in 1948, starring in dozens of movies with many leading men of Hollywood, many of them romantic comedies, including Rock Hudson, Jimmy Stewart, Clark Gable, Ronald Reagan, Cary Grant, David Niven, and many others.
Her public persona was the virtuous girl next door, so she declined the leading role in the Graduate. In that movie, the role of the randy mother-in-law went to Ann Bancroft, who seduced her future son-in-law, Dustin Hoffman. What was not explored in the movie was what the family holiday dinners were like after he married her daughter. Doris Day was not willing to transition to the Free Love climate of the Sixties, which quickly ended her movie and recording careers. […]

Jimmy Carter: Christmas in Plains Compared to Christmas in the White House and Afterwards
Current Events and History

Jimmy Carter: Christmas in Plains Compared to Christmas in the White House and Afterwards

01/14/2025 Bruce Strom 3

Jimmy Carter grew up on his family farm in Archery, Georgia, several miles from Plains. He remembers: “In those earlier days, all my close neighbors were black families.” Their children “were my intimate friends with whom I played, fought, fished, hunted, and worked with in the cotton and peanut fields that were owned by my father.” When he went into town to sell peanuts, and when he started school, he felt that he “was in an alien environment in Plains, away from my black friends.”
Jimmy Carter continues: “The Great Depression was a time of almost incredible poverty, not only in rural Georgia but all over the country. Although my father was a landowner, cash money was scarce for us and for everyone else. Land seemed to have the only permanent economic value, and hard work was the key to survival. The celebration of Christmas during these times was quite different from what we know today: much more frugal, but with a degree of personal intimacy that brings back warm recollections.” […]

Jimmy Carter Biography Presidency Carter Center
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Jimmy Carter, His Presidency, and Founding the Carter Center

01/02/2025 Bruce Strom 0

Jimmy Carter was elected as President when many voters wanted an honest President after the nation witnessed the Watergate scandal and coverup by a criminal president who was facing impeachment. Not only was Jimmy Carter seen as an honest man, but he was also a sincere born-again Christian. But his support for civil rights turned many white Christians against him. In the introduction, Jimmy Carter proclaims: “Vice President Mondale summarized our administration by saying, ‘We told the truth, we obeyed the law, we kept the peace.’ I would add, ‘We championed human rights.’” […]

How Do We Treat our Neighbors Who Suffer From Dementia? Also, Guidance for Over-55 Condos
Dementia and Alzheimers Disease

How Should We Treat our Neighbors Who Suffer From Dementia? Also, Guidance for Over-55 Condos

03/16/2024 Bruce Strom 1

The challenge facing all of us is the difficulty in distinguishing between the elderly who have dementia from those who are cantankerous or troublemakers. Indeed, even the experts may not be able to tell when dementia is in its earliest stages. So be patient with cantankerous elderly neighbors, they might be suffering from early-stage dementia, evaluate whether they have enough to eat and drink. Be quick to call the police and welfare agencies to evaluate the situation, but in Florida and other states, the police need to be the first contact.

You cannot even say that since this person has a long history of being a troublemaker, then this person is not in an early stage of dementia. Dementia is not like the common cold, when today you have a cold, and yesterday you did not. Dementia often progresses slowly, which means that the personality of someone with dementia does not change as much as it evolves, and often their worse behavior will worsen. Someone who is angry will often simply become angrier. Often their actions are captive to their emotions, which means that the person with advanced dementia literally cannot be blamed for their actions. […]

Man Who Mistook His Wife for a Hat
Dementia and Alzheimers Disease

Do We Have Free Will? Phineas Gage and Case Studies From the Man Who Mistook His Wife for a Hat

12/06/2023 Bruce Strom 3

The concept that someone could be so demented that they are no longer responsible for their behavior is hard for people to accept. After all, the concept that we are all responsible for our actions, that we always act out of free will, is a bedrock principle in our legal and even religious institutions. But unfortunately, as psychologists know, there are many mentally ill who cannot control their actions.
One early and famous case history is that of Phineas Gage, who is perhaps the most famous and influential schmuck in human history. I have listened to many psychology lectures in Wondrium, the Teaching Company, and university lectures on Youtube that retell the story of Phineas Gage, which I have heard a dozen times. When my daughter in medical school told me that she was starting her psychology section, I told her that she would hear the remarkable story of Phineas Gage, which she did a few days later. […]

Problems Family Caretakers Face When Caring for Loved Ones Suffering From Dementia
Dementia and Alzheimers Disease

Problems Family Caregivers Face When Caring for Loved Ones Suffering From Dementia

08/02/2023 Bruce Strom 5

This book compares the dance between the dementia patient and the loved ones who are their caretakers where they seem to have the same arguments over and over again, the “Alzheimer’s patients seem unable to learn from their mistakes. But it is also, because, weirdly enough, caregivers experience the same problem. In an uncanny mirroring, we get pulled into a parallel process with our charges, forgetting what happened yesterday, repeating what didn’t work last time, becoming ever more prone to agitation and impatience, even as we’re engaged in a trial of devotion that pushes love to its limit.” […]

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Dementia and Alzheimers Disease

How I Halted Foreclosure on Owner With Advanced Dementia, Reflecting on Dementia

05/05/2023 Bruce Strom 11

There are brain scans and other tests that doctors can run to confirm the existence of dementia in the elderly who appear to be misbehaving and are an irritation to the community. These diagnoses are not solely dependent on judgmental observations of behavior, though this is a secondary indication. If someone is behaving strangely, have them tested, don’t just assume that they are in full control of their actions. […]