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How Do We Treat our Neighbors Who Suffer From Dementia? Also, Guidance for Over-55 Condos
Philosophy

How Should We Treat our Neighbors Who Suffer From Dementia? Also, Guidance for Over-55 Condos

03/16/2024 Bruce Strom 1

The challenge facing all of us is the difficulty in distinguishing between the elderly who have dementia from those who are cantankerous or troublemakers. Indeed, even the experts may not be able to tell when dementia is in its earliest stages. So be patient with cantankerous elderly neighbors, they might be suffering from early-stage dementia, evaluate whether they have enough to eat and drink. Be quick to call the police and welfare agencies to evaluate the situation, but in Florida and other states, the police need to be the first contact.

You cannot even say that since this person has a long history of being a troublemaker, then this person is not in an early stage of dementia. Dementia is not like the common cold, when today you have a cold, and yesterday you did not. Dementia often progresses slowly, which means that the personality of someone with dementia does not change as much as it evolves, and often their worse behavior will worsen. Someone who is angry will often simply become angrier. Often their actions are captive to their emotions, which means that the person with advanced dementia literally cannot be blamed for their actions. […]

Problems Family Caretakers Face When Caring for Loved Ones Suffering From Dementia
Dementia and Alzheimers Disease

Problems Family Caregivers Face When Caring for Loved Ones Suffering From Dementia

08/02/2023 Bruce Strom 3

This book compares the dance between the dementia patient and the loved ones who are their caretakers where they seem to have the same arguments over and over again, the “Alzheimer’s patients seem unable to learn from their mistakes. But it is also, because, weirdly enough, caregivers experience the same problem. In an uncanny mirroring, we get pulled into a parallel process with our charges, forgetting what happened yesterday, repeating what didn’t work last time, becoming ever more prone to agitation and impatience, even as we’re engaged in a trial of devotion that pushes love to its limit.” […]

Tony Bennett and Rita Hayworth: Their Struggle With Alzheimer's
Dementia and Alzheimers Disease

Tony Bennett and Rita Hayworth: Their Struggle With Alzheimer’s

07/25/2023 Bruce Strom 4

“Tony Bennett was already showing clear signs of the disease, Susan said, when he and Lady Gaga started recording the new LP at New York’s Electric Lady Studios two years after his diagnosis. Indeed, Susan was not entirely sure that Tony was up to the task. ‘We’ll try,’ she recalled telling Danny. ‘That’s all I can tell you. We’ll try.’”
“Tony was a considerably more muted presence during the recording of the new album with Lady Gaga. In raw documentary footage of the sessions, he speaks rarely, and when he does his words are halting; at times, he seems lost and bewildered. Lady Gaga, clearly aware of his condition, keeps her utterances short and simple (as is recommended by experts in the disease when talking to Alzheimer’s patients). ‘You sound so good, Tony,’ she tells him at one point. ‘Thanks,’ is his one-word response.” […]